What I mean by control of my situation (or those of us trying to RC our M) is the outcome of our R, WW and I. I'm learning that I can't do anything to influence her decisions regarding the A so am better able to let it go.
Since my last posts I feel mentally I'm in a better place and can work on my situation with less pressure to try and "win" her back! She needs to come back on her own accord or I face a possible second D-Day, this has helped me see my situation differently in a new light if you will!
It's all about the boys and me now and if she chooses to join us well I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.
Good to hear from you all.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
