Christmas is a difficult time for us, just looking at all the adverts on the TV is enough to trigger emotion BUT I’m trying my hardest to give the boys the best Christmas I can. The boys are with me on Christmas Eve waking up Christmas morning with me, this was greeted with a lot of resentment on WW behalf but was adamant they weren’t waking up playing “happy families” with the two love birds.
D talk? Only when things don’t go her way or when I maintain my boundaries but have since BD only had these conversations 3 times! I feel this will be escalated on New Year’s Eve with them making it a New Year’s resolution, I’ll not file myself but will make it clear if she wants to bring our family to an end then she will have to do it.
Tread – no I had to move out of our family home in February (13th) due to her constant mental torture she was inflicting on my boys and I, really not very pleasant for us all.
Thanks again.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
