Just wanted to lend my support as well. It's also incomprehensible to me what my H is doing to my two boys. He seems completely oblivious to the damage. They don't really want to be with him right now either (mainly because of where he has chosen to live) but feel sorry for him so they go with him. I think it will take me years to wrap my mind around what has transpired these past few months. Be gentle with yourself. These are tough times, but you are definitely not alone!
DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation Me: 54 H: 58 Two Teenage sons Living Separately from H Married 19 years, together 22 years Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS
