The only thing I would like is for my girls to be comfortable with my W and I in the same room that we can be friendly towards each other for their benefit. I don't want them to feel awkward. If/when this happens we are going to be in each others lives for years so the smoother the better IMO. In order to make that happen though I have had to keep my emotions in check. Thats' where the IC and you all have really helped!
Currently I am trying to walk the fine line of treating her like a friendly neighboor, being a good co-parent while trying to keep the road free and clear if there is to be a return. Trying to do this while building attraction is a balance IMO but I think that is where the not pursuing, no R talks, NC, droping the rope and taking care of yourself physically and building confidence comes in.
