Also, Geeze, FastCars. 3 BDs? 1NS? I don't know how you persevere, sir. That's a bit inspiring.
In between those BD there were good times in the MR, my children have a stable and supporting home life, and we were financially well off. So it wasn't always bad.
While I made some mistakes, I don't regret the time I spent DB-ing and then trying to get our MR back on track. However, going forward I will no longer accept the halfhearted efforts my W made to our MR. Either my W comes around and wants to work on the marriage, or we get divorced. I can't get back into a MR where we are only roommates.
