25yearsMLC 10 Later I FILE D part 8

[25yearsmlc]

question

why do you think the party who in most people's eyes was more at fault (not completely and I played a role, etc)

but in the last 26 months for sure, so much deceit on H's ends, the stealing all the marital money from our joint accounts (*NOT a crime btw, but recoverable if you have the resources to pursue them)

and all the crap I've already posted here

why is HE so damn angry at ME? And so detached from our kids???

And from what I can tell, he's cancelled ALL life insurance policies so our kids (not just me) get nothing from him.

I think or assume that Schmoopie gets it all.


35 years and all the holidays (MOST) without a dad around, the thousands of nights and so much missed TIME

and then they get kicked to the curb for some tundra woman up there.

Dark thoughts today but I'm going to a meeting and will snap out of it.

There's no way to make some of h's actions into anything other than ugly,

so I guess it goes to what I do with my actions so the kids have one sane parent.

God, I hope they don't turn into weird spouses decades from now, or ever



My friend M is a good man. He really tries and he listens. Don't know if we are just in the right place t the right time to help each other thru the sucky plane crash part - but it's very good to have a special friend help you in those dark moments. They get it.

BTW we both agree never to disparage the other's former spouse, (whom we've never met) b/c we find it so offensive

and b/c we are NOT schmoopies.