Thanks job. I'll give that a try when there is an opening (invite her to go with me for coffee or something). In the interim I will try to detach more emotionally, GAL, and dig for patience.

Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017