There is nothing wrong in saying "w, I'm going to such and such a place, would like to go along or can I bring something back for you?". Give her the option to say yes or no. If she says yes, then go and keep the conversation on generic things and not on the relationship. If she says no, go any way and enjoy your outing. It's her loss if she opts out.
It's better to give her the option because then it gives her the "control over her life" and not being forced to do something she doesn't want to do.
You won't know what works unless you experiment a bit. Dig deeper for patience.
Last edited by job; 12/12/1709:25 AM.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
