If you wish at any stage to build a new R with WW then the road home has to be smooooth and open.
Like the lighthouse.
Cordiality like an acquaintance. Let go of the revenge attitude as that will just escalate stuff. Think neutral and self centred not selfish.
I get the glee when it dawns you moved the money. And that would be my choice, although more in sorrow than anger. That is best I think.
Validation is also good as pleasantly as you can. Concerned about things you should be as the mother of your children.
Anything that affects your children is important too. The biggest change is financial as now she is on her own. She needs cash to buy children's shoes is different from a massage and spa day!
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
