We had a very frank and open discussion about how I'm moving on even though we both are moving forward with D. I made it clear I'm not holding out for her but I understand all the things she is going through. I reassured her that I know how hard things are for her. How I accept the divorce and I forgive her for anything. I reaffirmed my stance on the D, but that I will not stop it if it is what she really wants.
Its odd to me that W wanted to talk and then you reported on only things that you said. In my opinion, if you are going to talk, she should be doing 70-80% of the talking while you listen.
