D day is coming. I have confirmation of EA with pending PA. She admitted it. I can't legally make her leave the marital home, but I can leave for the weekends sometimes and force her to her parent her son. She needs reminders of what I provide in our family, but I really just need the time away from her. Plus, I had a blast with my boy over the past weekend without her around. I want more good times for him during this rough season.
I think today I have started to really embrace the need for me to get this D done and out of the way.
I don't care if I speed it up or whatever. This is going to take months so we are stuck with each other due to logistics anyhow. I'm not moving out, but if she does then great.
I hereby vow to treat her like a neighbor passing on the street from now on. I will be friendly but not friends, I will be kind but not caring, I will be understanding but not supportive. I am going to GAL like I'm single and parent my boy like Dad of the Year.
It's taking me time to go through the grieving process but I'm getting there. Thanks for being my sounding board everyone.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018