I see you point LH, but doesn't something like that just put a reset button on all the work that you've put in.
No. Doesn't change the work you put in. IMO if J feels that 7 months of giving her space with no pressure is long enough for her to figure out what she wants (which I agree with him)then he can call her on it.
There is a risk that the longer this goes on the more she gets comfortable living single and as the saying goes about the monkey grabbing the next branch before letting go of the first branch.
