artista, if you get a chance can you give my thread a read and se what you think? i'd really appreciate it!
good morning... i have been following your journey, and you are one of the reasons i wanted to come and finally participate... in a nutshell, i think you are too nice to your WW... i think what she is doing to you and your children IN YOUR HOME is AWFUL...
i thought your idea to cut off her WiFi was a good one, and i was dismayed when others seemed to steer you away from that... because really, what other consequence can you apply? so what if she can always get WiFi elsewhere... the boundary was that she not disrespect you in your home... if she wants to facetime and have cyber sex down the street somewhere, that's on her... that has nothing to do with you... but in your home? forget that noise... and with your children there? having to slip notes under the door????!!!! OMG... that is insane... disgusting...
i do not think you should have bailed her out after she could not afford living on her own... she wants to be free from you, then she should go--be free... why should you support her until she can figure out a way to be with OM? how are you living with that? i will say it again, you are much too nice... i get you cannot kick her out of the house, but you can kick her out of your life... and if it happens that she makes changes because she wants to reconcile, you can invite her back in... but that cannot happen until you first kick her cheating a$$ out of your too-awesome life...
i am baffled that so many LBHs make room to allow their WWs to comfortably continue cheating... you don't have to make it easy for her... ugh... the image of her walking the neighborhood as she talks on the phone with OM, and WAVES at you while you are on the roof--that is, again, insanely disrespectful, disgusting... to me, that says, as far as she is concerned, she has your understanding... your approval...
mis dos centavos...
artista
p.s.--i know i am being blunt... but there are already plenty of contributors here who deliver their messages with the nice, soft cotton balls... a little barbed-wire, anyone?
