Husband gone for second time - new here

[Caz49]

Hi Nicole,

Sorry I've not been around, I've been battling a cold, loads of commission orders and lots of snow with a manic rescue dog that still needs and wants long walks and attention.

Well done on the conversation with your H. I feel you stood your ground well. H can say as much as he wants but its actions that tell all. He didn't say an awful lot, maybe he's digesting it, who knows. And maybe you're correct and he doesn't believe you'll follow through. Who cares what he thinks...unless H is putting obstacles in your way regarding moving your D away from him. Do you need his permission in writing? I'm unsure about your laws regarding moving children away from their parents.

So carry on with your plans, wipe him out from your mind and look for that new life in the new city. If H has an epiphany you can decide if he's worth your new found confidence...and if he doesn't, then you've got your new life and a wonderful daughter.

H is making it easy for you to leave right now, so go with it, if thats the direction you wish to take.

Go after what you want. I think you're doing great!