I reaffirmed my stance on the D, but that I will not stop it if it is what she really wants.
This is a hard time in her life and I wanted to make her know I'm not her enemy, that I can be supportive and I can also move on with my life and I'm fully prepared to do it, and that I'm even doing it right now and making personal improvements for MY OWN benefit NOT hers. The conversation ended with her giving me a hug.
Joe,
So you find out she is having a PA and your worried about conveying to her that you will be supportive and then end it with a hug? WTF. That's very weak behavior Joe!Now she knows she has you wrapped around her little finger and you will be around as plan B if OM doesn't work out. Come on man.
