New LBS dealing with WW

[Joe2017]

WW wanted to talk. I felt like she was being open and her guard was down. I was VERY cautious to making her defensive. She said she couldn't talk about a PA but I know about the EA because she already told me. (I found lingerie etc that allow me to believe that a PA has happened but she doesn't know that I know.)

We had a very frank and open discussion about how I'm moving on even though we both are moving forward with D. I made it clear I'm not holding out for her but I understand all the things she is going through. I reassured her that I know how hard things are for her. How I accept the divorce and I forgive her for anything. I reaffirmed my stance on the D, but that I will not stop it if it is what she really wants.

This is a hard time in her life and I wanted to make her know I'm not her enemy, that I can be supportive and I can also move on with my life and I'm fully prepared to do it, and that I'm even doing it right now and making personal improvements for MY OWN benefit NOT hers. The conversation ended with her giving me a hug.

It was actually a genuine moment. I did it so I could heal personally and help ease tensions in my house.

I hope it helps make the D smoother.