You threw DBing out the window. Every time you have a talk about the M, the A, or the R, you push her further away. You have to detach and let her go.
Its hard as hell, the people on this board know as well as anyone. We also know that DBing is the best way to Get you sanity back.
So now This is the second time you have had this type of talk since you been here, with the same results. You can talk to her for two hours, two weeks or two months, your words will never change her mind. You have to lead with actions and actions only.
Get back on the DBing horse and start working. Stop telling her what you doing for GAL. Is she telling you what she is doing with the OM? I bet not. Stop trying to win her back and make her doubt leaving you. Make yourself a person a fool would leave. Make her come after you. It's only going to happen after you let go and you Get STRONGER and not dependant on her. Take your life back and let her see how wonder for your life is without her.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
