After more research it seems that I have a combination of walk away and wayward here. She is both. So I am going to just keep moving forward with GAL and keep a positive attitude around her, no matter how my heart feels.
After telling her that she is going to get her divorce, she has been much kinder to me. Softer tones. She sat down next to me today after coming back from whatever. We chatted small talk.
I told her my boy and I going to be volunteering at a local charity we both love. She asked why now after all this time that she has asked to do this. I told her that she was right, but I'm not doing it for her I'm doing it for myself.
I'm still GAL and I do not feel like R is my goal. I am getting served this week so, that's that. If R happens it's because my WW has a change of heart (not likely I know) or her Plan A becomes infeasible. Her mind is made up, obviously.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018