Gordie #14: the end of my M to MLC W, I think

[Irish M]

Hey Gordie
As Bttrfly said. Stay strong. You are a better man keeping your boundaries. I know its hard to resist the idea of sharing the bed once again with your W. Shes not there yet. Xmas time is tough on them and she might be feeling you pulling away. You can't accept an open relationship. It would make you the other man.

If her relationship with OM2 is dying. Once it does, she will need time alone to process it all and not jump back to you too fast. You will need to work hard together if any true rebuild is possible. I don't see that as a quick fix. Stand tall and strong as temptation will make it difficult to resist. If she is not completely baked.. stay clear.

keep up the amazing job with your kids.