Unless she's one of those women who practically hemorrhages every month, having your period is just an excuse. HD women easily get around this problem through creative use of diaphragms and sponges you can get at natural food stores or by doing it in the shower.
Trust me, I would be lucky to have her agree to sex when everything is "perfect"...I'll eventually push this issue but right now, I respecting this one quirk of hers. The shower thing is a completely different issue that was a topic in therapy. She won't shower w me at all. She claims "I'm not a 'naked' person...I never have been and I never will be" (as in 'i don't enjoy being naked' ever in any circumstance). What's funny about this declarative statement, is that she is saying it more frequently like she's trying to get sympathy for her LD based on her discomfort with being naked.
Note that I don't wear a watch or any jewelry except my wedding ring and I've never liked wearing any jewelry (and she has known this about me since we dated). I'm getting really close to taking my wedding ring off and saying "I'm not a jewelry guy...I've never liked wearing jewelry and I never will". I know this sounds really harsh and mean because it's a "symbol" of our marriage but her being "naked" in front of me is a symbol of our marriage too.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
