Husband gone for second time - new here

[Cherry]

Nicole, i just stimbled upon your post. There seems to be so many similarities in our husbands. Mine has checked out again, and we have 2 children. Our S is the same age as your d, he first checked out when he was about 9 months old. He had an A and then came back grovelling after I’d db’d my a$$ off. He checked out good and proper when pregnant with our second child. He’s now announced he is doing a cultural arranged m (he is arranging himself). Meanwhile, he had been sleeping with me, and telling me he had been having regrets about leaving (i did not know about this girl).
He’s been doing the same as your h and not bothering showing up when he should be to see the kids. Leaving me 100% parenting alone.

As an outsider, it’s always easier to give advise to someone else. But i would say to honestly consider the move. It might be the best way to find some peace and sanity for yourself and rebuild yourself. Particularly, if you would have more support, i think for the sake of your health it would be an excellent idea. Wrt your daughter hating you, i highly doubt that. You’ve put your all into this, you’ve tried to make your m work. You’ve protected her throughout this and been there for her- never worry about that.