Sara. You have the patience of a saint. You have absolutely gone above and beyond in this m, through hell and back and is truly truly hope that he is pulling his head out of his a$$ and saying alhamdulilah ive been absolutely blessed! There’s been so many similarities in your sitch and mine and our husbands (even their cultures). I honestly come to you when i need a bit of strength. Right now i feel like I’m just at the survival stage, and i know you’ve been there. The not knowing if this is what you want, or you’re ready to give in. And what a journey you’ve had since the start of this thread!! I think my journey has been paved for me through him picking someone else, when our Islamic divorce is invalid, and our legal is going through.


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16