For sure Joe. I need to pay it back a bit. Life keeps me away from the boards for the most part and I only recognize a few names now a days.
I think the best part of where I am at right now is complete and utter detachment. I have been here for a while now. But if I go weeks without any contact I don't care. Probably more importantly, if she does contact me, I also don't care. I don't care if she goes out and gets a new guy... I just don't care. It feels great! This divorce was goal number one for the new year... so far so good!