Waoo Cil ... you are an amazing lady... I went through the last thread and I see a very strong proud lady and such a great mother. The way you transformed the relation with your exh is amazing and how you made a home for him and you kids. You could have done the thanks giving for you and kids but including exh I am sure made it easier for the kids and more enjoyable for you.yes expectations is a problem but then again even when we decide to be involved in a new relationship we have to deal with our expectations. In this case it is more personal since we feel this guy was ours.
I salute you for being able to be the shining star in your family life. Try to enjoy every moment you have whether with kids, exh, or dating...i now think it is important to enjoy everyday as to tomorrow we don’t own it hence why worry about it.
Wishing you a great xmas ahead...


M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated