Let me just elucidate my thoughts on M and R, H and BF.

In the Muslim world it is customary to have a ceremony with a religious turn.

I am finding many Muslim women think they are M and as a result of finding out they are not have little or no protection on D. I recently dealt with an intestacy and had to advise the 'wife' that as she wasn't legally M she couldn't inherit and everything went to her partners parents. She thought she was M.

It makes a big difference.

Custom isn't Legality!

No one should be with a cheater or abuser or stay in such an R. My concern is for you, you are the one here on this board and this isn't an easy journey. Especially if the other is a cheater with serious personality flaws.

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW