New LBS dealing with WW

[joejoe1]

Joe,

I cant remember who told me this. It was either AS or TXHubby.

The WW has three options.

Option A. Leave H and go be with OM
Option B. Leave OM and go back to H
Or
Option C. Try her hardest to keep both in her life.

Option A & B hurts her and another person. And makes her make a really hard decision. Option C hurts the least amount. She's gets the best of both worlds and she also gets time to find reason and time to come up with valid excuses for choosing whatever decision she tries to go with.

Well you can impact option A & B by taking those options away from her. Forcing to decide on Only option A. When she sees her options go from 3 to 1 reality hits like a ton of bricks.

She keeps texting you to see if you are still a option. Keep your responses one or two words unless answering a question about the kids. She has to feel you as an option pulling away. If you are giving her 80 percent and she's left to deal with OM who's only giving 20 percent then fantasy starts to fade.

When I saw this I had a ah ha moment.