You could have said “would you like to talk about” then listened and validated.
Do not stress or worry about it because it wouldn’t change anything.
I know it won't change anything... thinking of this more in terms of making sure that I am "lovingly detaching" while LRT vs. cold or mean or being a b@$t*d. Need to figure this out so in future I can do better regardless of relationship w WW.
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after