Drowning in his crisis

[peacetoday]

Hi

It is hard on the kids for a time..they adjust
maybe in time they will seek therapy to sort it all out
I always told my kids and still do if it ever comes up
that dad got sick..never had a thing to do with them..

I believe MLC is real
maybe some people transition easier than others to different stages of life
some people may feel off and go to therapy
then there are the MLCers ....for whatever reason, unresolved issues from childhood
may tip them over the line..some people minds snap ..life is stressful and without good coping skills well who knows what can be
the MLCer suddenly reverts back to an age where maybe responsibility is not there
they can play, drink, spend, have affair whatever-
they can't see future consequences
just like a teen or young adult may take wild chances ...everyone pays for their bad choices even teens may lose lots of opportunities for wrong decisions

As you let go, and take care of you, you will get stronger
the kids will see that so you become an example to them of how to navigate thru crises

Hang in