Gordie #14: the end of my M to MLC W, I think

[Sotto]

Hi Gordie, I'm sorry you had a rough day and I can see that must have thrown you for a loop. To move from 'I'm done' to 'hey maybe I can have an open marriage with you' - rough...

I think you did well and in your heart you know that being involved with her whilst she is involved with OM is the worst possible scenario. Much better to keep your boundaries intact and move solidly forward. Fact is, just now your W has become someone you wouldn't even consider dating..

I'm sorry you are going through this, but I do want to tell you that further down the road a lovely woman will come into your life - because - of the way you have handled yourself through all of this. Lovely women are attracted to that...

Take Gordie and I hope the weekend is better for you. Are you leaving W in charge sometimes and getting out yourself?

Xx