So a quick update. I've had enough of H's lies and games. I found out he was on a dating site. No big deal. He can date. We are after all separated. When I confronted him he said yes he had been on for a week, but no dates and not talking to any women. I said but the intent is there. And there is no turning back from this. A friend saw him out that night with a woman for dinner. I did a non DB procedure and got into his account. He's been talking to this woman for a week and they met for dinner. I did not confront him that I knew. But asked if he was sure he wasn't talking to anyone. He said no he wasn't talking to anyone. So he's lying to me. I told him there was no reason to lie if he had something to tell me. It was fine that he was dating. I've accepted it. And I have. It hurts. But I'm ok. But he's still lying to me and he got upset like crying upset when I asked him about his knowledge on telling me stuff for the house I wanted to change. I have 100% accepted this is over. I have even packed up his stuff and put it out for him. Why is he lying to me about this woman? I'm truly ok that if he wants to date then ok. He doesn't need to lie to me to protect me. If that is what he is doing. And he is adamant it is over. So why hide it?? I'm just looking for an idea of others who have been there and if there ex spouses hid their dating? As I said to H I just need to know. That's all. I hate lies and hiding. And have moved on.
