thank you, sandi2... i appreciate that... i have been reading your contributions since circa March 2015, and it is kind of strange to be in here now, after all this time! when i first started reading, the posters at that time were Heavy-D, RD500, Pink, Elly, Bob, Jelly Bean, Sherman 333, Mozza (who i thought seemed really cool and wise beyond his years)... etc... i would read their situations, get so mad at their spouses--all the while realizing i was guilty of what their spouses were doing to them... there have been many times when i would, in my head, say, "i hope sandi2 comes to give this guy her two cents."

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