Sotto, Roist, Butterfly, Job,

Thanks for all the support and encouragement. I am proud of how I handled myself but am now wondering...what if she refuses to sign?

Do I just give her more time and space?

I have read about others whose spouses won’t sign and never understood that,,,but now that’s my reality. What to do?

My L says I shouldn’t move out until this is signed so I feel kind of stuck and controlled by my stbx.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving