Former WW--2 1/2 yrs. piecing...

[marina7]

Artista,
Wow reading your story makes me think of my exw... we are in a lesbian relationship we adopted 3 beautiful kids.. our first son was 3 months and then 3yrs later 2 more which was not plan I took guardianship from my sister which we later adopted. Now we have S9,D9 and S8
Well April 2017 BD and OW by June W just walk out and took some clothes left everything behind and didn't hear from her for a month. Around July she ask to see kids we meet at drop off and then I'll pick up. W would spend less then 2 days with them i would see her anxiety after w having them. Around August W came over to pick kids after my big surgery and only took our S9 our first son stating he is related to me if he wasn't I wouldn't care either of course i been trying to keep kids safe she then brings him back 2 weeks later but if I didn't do what she said she would use only him as a pawn. Now D9 and S8 feel abandoned and w Doesn't help by telling them she never wanted them. So I finally put my fot down and said to w i won't allow you and ow mentally abuse my kids of course denied. Since then a month she separated kids won't let me see S9 who knows what she told me son. While I have D9 and S8 which they all again are adopted by us. Since then my laywer seeking for full custody and bring S9 back home. So now I have a question if you dont mind.

I understand ya H/W are angry,mad or hurt with your spouse but why take the anger out on your child lash out on them not care of kids feeling or emotions.i break my head not understanding why hurt children's in the process. How can I show W she is hurting them or how can I want her to love her kids again. W will be served next week with custody of all 3 kids and child support will this make her more angry or will this wake her up. After everything she has cause us I still wish her the best and happiness I don't ever want to hurt her as she done with US.