Hey DB'rs... guess I become a DB failure story today... or maybe a success story hmmmmm...I am going with success story.... time will tell!
Today was D day! Joint petition so court was fast and smooth. And that is that, the end of the road.
No need for sorry's or anything like that. I pushed for the D and it was needed. When people say piecing is the hardest part, they ain't kidding. I got to a place most can only dream of on this board and at the end of the day, there was just too much damage to overcome. Lot of tears from WW in court. Then we went out for breakfast.
She said two interesting things to me. First she said that she hopes this does not mean I am permanently out of her life. Then she said she hopes we can still get together once in a while. Meh, I don't think so...I didn't say much in return.
Even though we were married for a short period of time, this relationship has been a huge part of my daily life for 20 years, even when we were not together, it literally consumed me. To not have to think anymore is freeing. I am hoping to use this as a spring board for the rest of my life. On to 2018!