yes--i get that... but the question that was posed to me was not done in this spirit... the previous comments were all about the OM being a "loser," as far as the eye can see... the descriptions were physical and included addictions and resources--"tow truck driver," which to me does not indicate anything, really... one of the most wonderful families i know is headed by the husband/father, who is a tow truck driver... he is a loyal, hardworking, man of faith...
Yeah, that was pretty short-sighted of me, especially coming from me-- a child of a family born of humble roots. My Grandfather actually got his start as a truck driver, and my W's family was VERY blue-collar... her dad worked in a steel mill into his 70s. I meant no affront to the profession itself (though obviously I gave one) and, especially due to my and my wife's roots absolutely do understand the value and honor in a hard day's work... just that this particular one is what you consider, well, the archetypal (albeit perhaps unfair, yes) one, and is absolutely NOT a hard worker and spends a lot of his time just knocking around in bars drinking beer.
Sorry if I gave any offense, though...
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
