[quote=Joe2017]Of course, then the crap hit the fan and she started yelling at me and now it's "clear to her" that she's making the right decision./quote]

Joe,

Yep, that's the standard WW spew. My XW always began her spew with, "You see that's exactly why I'm divorcing you..." I began wearing that phrase like a badge of honor; I learned to relish those moments with glee (that's probably not DB).

One time, she asked, via email, to borrow some money from me. I kept her on the hook for a few email exchanges and then I finally told her, "I think you should ask your boyfriend for the money; he's already cost me too much." She hit the freaking roof, "You see that's exactly why I'm divorcing you..."

In other words, don't take it personally, it's just what they do to keep you engaged and to make you the villain. Just treat it like a two year old having a tantrum.