Originally Posted By: Joseph9

H man you have to stop this. Why are you apologizing for? You both did the things in the MR to get you to this point. Is she apologizing to you for having an A, how sorry she is, wishes she could take it back, etc?


I hear what you are saying... and she's told me she's sorry that A hurts me...

I'm thinking of this more in terms of helping her to heal... I did ALOT of crap to her over the years... regardless of outcome now... and the fact that what she's doing is all on her... I still want to help her heal if I can for the past.


Me 47
STBXW 44
M ~20
D13
S15
BD mid 17
A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr
OM decade older
S Imminent
D Soon after

Be the rock that can weather the storm...