Changing down isn't about resources or addictions but about spirit, values and beliefs. What type of person will cheat with a cheater? What values do they have?
yes--i get that... but the question that was posed to me was not done in this spirit... the previous comments were all about the OM being a "loser," as far as the eye can see... the descriptions were physical and included addictions and resources--"tow truck driver," which to me does not indicate anything, really... one of the most wonderful families i know is headed by the husband/father, who is a tow truck driver... he is a loyal, hardworking, man of faith...
but i knew what was being asked of me in the trade-down question... and i answered it honestly... by worldly standards, no i did not trade down... and neither did he...
