B/C I am not supposed to say I do not want a D again, or express my boundaries (about the OM) again. I am just having trouble compiling my thoughts on how to answer those types of questions.
She already knows where you stand, Chris. I don't understand why this causes so much fear that you feel you don't even know what to say to her. She is the one who wanted to "talk", so let her talk. (As long as she doesn't start dumping b.s. on you). Why are you worried about what you should say?
What's to say in a R talk that hasn't already been said? How does it look not to have a R talk? Seriously?
Maybe one word you did not use enough with her was, "No". Try that out.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
