Actually today is one of the harder days I've had. It started out so promising and now I am in a dark place by afternoon. I'm really really really missing my WW right now. I have nobody else in this world who understands me, and now nobody who loves me the way she did.
I am broken. I'm losing will power to do anything.
Oh man.
I know it's dark right now, believe me I know it all too well. All of us here new and old alike have lived it. You WILL make it through this. You CAN do this. It is NOT easy, not at all. Sometimes you need to take it a day at a time, and sometimes an hour at a time, or even a few minutes. But you're going to find out you are stronger and more resilient then you ever imagined. Just remember there IS hope! The chances are good that you will have a chance at reconciliation, it may not be as fast as you want but maybe this is all a lesson in patience.
Originally Posted By: Joe2017
Thank you for the reality check Stander. I needed that. I'm going to stop being available to her for anything anymore.
Just make sure not to get cold and distant, keep reading Sandi's rules over and over again as a reminder of what your approach should be:
