[quote=Ginger1 You need to stop with all the explantions and words. Just BE that man, don't tell her about it. You keep making up this conversations you would have in certain scenarios. Thinking the right words will flip her around. it doesn't happen that way.
And as far as giving her conditions on coming back in the bedroom? Don't. Just tell her she is out. When she is ready to ask back, then you decide if you actually want her there. [/quote]
Thank you for again trying to keep me on the right path here... focus on what I need to do vs. might do, could do.
It will be interesting to see if she does ask to come back into the BR or just shows up there again at some point... As long as she's in A, and wants nothing to do with me, I'm don't think it makes any sense for us to share a bed... just causes me to want her (especially as its been months of no physical touch) and isn't good for me... can't sleep. Note: she's also having a hard time sleeping... many nights wakes up at 4 5 5:30 am and can't get back to sleep...
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after
