Separation imminent....

[Hermes]

question for Cadet if anyone knows how to reach him...

I asked her to move out of BR... everyone here says that I did the right thing (she didn't bring it up last night just got ready for bed took her pillow downstairs and I didn't see her until 7:15AM when I was shaving and she came in to take shower).

cadet says to another person who's not in the Bedroom that:

MOVE back in the bedroom.

Make her move out if she does not want you there

Moving out of the house and bedroom is a MAJOR mistake that is made in these situations.

I get this is a different sitch as the LBS moved out and he says make her move out if she doesn't want me there... in my sitch... WW never asked, nor told me to leave BR...
I asked her to go back to basement to sleep as I needed to get some sleep.
That said, didn't sleep particularly well last night alone... but also didn't have to worry about guarding myself against bumping up against her or touching her prompting a reaction from her "could I have a little space" as she wants nothing to do with me...

Am assuming I still did the right thing based on all the feedback I got... but wondering what Cadet meant by

Moving out of the house and bedroom is a MAJOR mistake that is made in these situations.

Is this just for the LBS? or in general? (and I get that WW is diff. than other sitch.