Good job. Now, what are your GALs? You are starting to pull away, if you are serious she will feel it, she will respond be ready and don't forget to respond with love. Don't be a jerk or mean. [\quote]
I'm going [Out] tonight and Saturday Nt... no plans tonight yet... might go to Meditation meetup, then hang out at a microbrewery and read some self help books eat some wings.
Sat, I plan to do a hike in morning and in afternoon/evening meet a friend to do some outdoor photography then have some beer and maybe take in a local band with another friend.
All she knows is I'm going OUT on calendar. She kept telling me she "doesn't need/want to know where I'm going or what I'm doing, etc. et." broken record every time I'm going out (think she's trying to force herself to not care/detach and pretty sure this mantra is coming from her counselor as is the tell the parents ABSOLUTELY nothing and we're private people with script for parents and kids.
Trying really hard to not be mean/cold/or a jerk as I messed that up a bit early on... being too cold and a bit of a jerk.
[quote=joejoe1] You do deserve better. But don't get revengeful. Only thing you need to say is you deserve better. You don't another woman in that equation. Now you need to demand better for yourself. Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy. A really good book and it will open your eyes to A lot of characteristics that need to be fixed. The NGS is something most LBS have.
will look into the No More Mr. Nice Guy... I had heard mixed things about the author of the book... but several folks seem to like this book. I agree I don't need/want another woman in my life anytime soon... That said, I do miss physical companionship and emotional attachment. and even though I don't think I was a very nice guy in the past to her... I have become a very nice guy to her since the BD... which probably didn't help my case any.
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after
