Absolutely...it's way more of a relationship book than a sex book. All I can say is read it. It addresses everything you said here. The funny thing is that every sitch on this site can be explained by PM. That's why Tim and I are being such goobers and telling everyone to read PM instead of trying to tell them how to, let's say, tweak their LL frequency. All the confusion that we've been going through here is explained in this book. I guarantee that it will explain your sitch.
This book gives you so many "ahaaas!" that you get a sense of power due to your insight. I'm finding that I'm not looking at other couples (and individuals) the same way anymore. A lot of here have been "walking around the forest in a blind stupor, bumping into trees, while looking for clues". PM is like having a map of the whole forest and the location of each clue and a decoder key. You will still have to do some walking but it now becomes focused, purposeful, and efficient.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
