I always feel badly for those who are served. It's just not a good thing to have happen and more importantly at work or around the holidays.
My former h had his lawyer send me the papers in the mail. I received them several days after Christmas and she used 1 cent stamps versus putting a regular stamp on the envelope. I thought that it was a tacky way of doing business and I laugh about it now.
Let's pray that these fools wake up and come to realize that they are the ones that wrecked their relations w/their families.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.