New LBS dealing with WW

[Joe2017]

She is mid 30's. She has a full time job making good money. Boys are both teens in HS. Married 6 years. No serious problems in the past worth divorce. No infidelity. No financial problems. No unemployment. No devastating loss of loved ones. No scandals.

This is all new. She is lumping a lot of general annoyances together and saying it's what led to this. She tells me sorrowfully that this is what she wants and it's not anything I did. Based on some data I believe she has a crush on another guy, however she has not cheated. Yet.

She apologizes for wanting the divorce.

She still asks me things like how my day is going. She will try to make small talk. But she keeps wanting to get me to agree to her divorce terms. I have already told her I don't want a divorce and she will have to really think about how much she wants this. She wants to be "fair" but that just really means she wants money from selling all of our property to start over in her "new and improved" life.

Can anyone give me tips on how to converse with her regarding the divorce? I don't want to commit to anything, especially now. This is the main topic of discussion she brings up. She wants money from selling our things.

She wants to just walk away from us. She wants me to make it easy. She's trying to push me over.