So W text earlier saying that Sunday morning she is taking S14 out of town to see her brother on a day trip and will not be back until late that night. So wants to know if its alright to bring S14 back to me Monday after school.
This feels so disrespectful. Like why wouldnt she plan it on a Sunday that she already has S14?! She already knows what days shes going to have S - its not this is a surprise.
I mean, I guess if this is a one time event to see the cousin then sure. But it seems like she just picked this without regards to any of the schedule you already have arranged.
Here is the thing. She wouldn't get S14 from me until 4:00PM on that Sunday. So that really wouldn't work. Unless I was kind enough to say just pick him up early that morning from me. Which I really wouldn't have an issue with. W could easily take the trip the day before, but she wants to bring her sister along. And I honestly have no obligation to make things easier on my SIL who has shown zero concern for me.
So if I say no, W has go the day before and leaves SIL behind. Which I doubt will happen, proving that she could careless about her nephew. Or I could be nice and just lose a day with my son. I am not one to count days, but this happens a lot on her part. And I honestly don't care about him being back at 4:00pm Because we're both flexible with the time.
W could have seen her nephew anytime during the last 5 months of his existence. They only live 3 hours away. So yes this is a bit disrespectful on her part. But I am wondering if it would be petty to tell her no?
Tread, I never give advice only opinions which others can accept or not.
East, have you seen the film inside out? It's amazing and sort of how I think emotions work. It depends on the part of your brain the anger eminates. Most anger falls from the limbic system inducing a body state of readiness. That tends to be primal, alert and just there! Mainly inactive producing a state of readiness. This is where changing state works well, the body cant hold two states at once. That's why directed anger is so so motivating creating shift. It gets things moving. So yes its great to add your own shift to anger.
That's why I love anger so much.
It's exciting when that happens on the board and I know that change is coming.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
I need tobgive him a call later and find out. But your right about anger being a motivator. It sure pushed myself in the right direction once I channeled it right.
Talking about Frozen-let it go is a great mantra don't you think?
I'm sure doodler will be along presently to crack a joke, but that song is practically made for divorce. Tweak it a little and it's perfect for NGS with a WW.
Don't let them in, don't let them see Be the Nice Guy you always have to be Conceal don't feel, don't let them know Well, now they know
Let it go. Let it go Can't hold it back anymore Let it go. Let it go. Turn away and slam the door. I don't care what they're going to say Let the storm rage on; the cold never bothered me anyway.
It's funny how some distance makes everything seem small. And the fears that once controlled me can't get to me at all! It's time to see what I can do. To test the limits and break through. No right, no wrong, no rules for me. I'm free!
Let it go. Let it go! I am one with the wind and sky Let it go. Let it go! You'll never see my cry! Here I stand, and here I'll stay. Let the storm rage on!
My power flurries through the air into the ground My soul is spiraling in frozen fractals all around And one thought crystallizes like an icy blast: I'm never going back! The past is in the past!
Let it go! Let it go. And I'll rise like the break of dawn Let it go! Let it go. Mr. Nice Guy is gone. Here I stand in the light of day! Let the storm rage on!
