I'm not sure of the laws in your state regarding commitments. In my state a patient sees the judge at the psychward every two weeks. The treating team advocates for continued hospitalization or discharge. The judge usually agrees with the teams request. I would consult a lawyer regarding finances ssap. In my state you are 50% responsible for assets or debts.
So it turns out she is being released. She's going to be staying with my sister for the time being. I reached out to the guy in California who is going to do everything he can to tell her not to come back. I'm hoping she can stay there and continue on the medication, and also wakes up to the fact she is not some grandiose movie star personality.
Ugh, I feel like the healthcare system has failed us.
I might call the super and ask him to change the locks on my apartment, just so there's no chance of her getting in. I feel like any interaction with her right now will not be positive. I'm thinking of going dark and not replying to her calls. At least until she acknowledges that she did a lot of wrong to me and wants to talk like a civil human being.
