I had a very similar upbringing. Strict parents; religious; good-girl vs bad-girl indoctrination......mostly from my mother; being an example; oldest child; a lot of responsibility was placed on me; etc.
And, I was a good girl! Never did anything that I would have been too embarrassed to tell my parents. I was the proper Christian young lady. Got M and became the proper W. That is..... until I got hooked playing online games (as an escape from my reality at the time)......which eventually led to other things.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
