Hey Jim, she sounds a lot like my STBXW with the catholic guilt. She was also the oldest, and waited until college for her first time with sex.

I've been following your sitch closely and I'm pulling for you. I just don't feel like I often have much to add.

Keep at it!

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.